Pamela well
For example, when Pamela already was wanted to clap, I forced it to turn palms a fast rotary motion.
I managed to prevent emergence of its undesirable reaction, in time saying: Turn palms.
Pamela well learned lesson so could already do it without urging on.
Persuasive thirst of Pamela for a personal melody signature did not weaken.
It was an extreme form of musical autism, and it could not be entered as a communication medium into one of our musical experiences.
It was possible to fight against it in only one way: to take away Pamela from her place at the left edge of the keyboard and to force to play on all keyboard, both hands and that hands were extended.
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On a visit at the sympathizing friends of the family he behaved better, but hated physical contacts.
Mathew was not the former dear child any more.
Helen and Simon consulted with the psychiatrist, the acquaintance who agreed though did not specialize on violations of mental development that the boy lags behind in development, and advised if till three years of improvements is not to ask for the help.
One more son, Richard was born in this period in a family.
Got used to the new family member Mathew very long.
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We hope that all this not will leave you indifferent.
This part of your work with the book will be the most effective, if to carry out it with the offenses of children which are unambiguously getting to the list of events the parent's lives, or, in other words, with their such actions, which everyone would agree to recognize unfair to you, make them the adults living with you.
We mean such offenses: Soils and does not clean up.
Hangs out wet towels on all bathroom.
Soils in kitchen.
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Such calm strengthens in it selfconfidence and helps to fight against difficulties.
The history has one more positive side: to invent story, interesting to the child, the storyteller has to get into a Toy inner world.
It is necessary to see surrounding with the child's eyes that we do infrequently.
We so got used to the adult prospect that we forget that there is also other view of things.
We forget that for the child of a monster in a case are also real, as you or I.
We forget that in magic children believe also sincerely and unconditionally, as in electricity or magnetism.
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Realize that circumstance that separate skirmishes with the child quite are admissible, and believe that your indecision in connection with them can to turn into confidence and even pleasant expectation as you will practice such communication.
Count in all this on your own openness as on main means.
Chapter Let's try to eliminate everything that provokes and supports problems in education Problems which can excite you and how to change your tactics behavior.
Lie.
Thefts.
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He can expect in the days this meeting with escalating impatience, and sometimes and with painful excitement but when day of a desired meeting comes, he can be frightened suddenly to leave alone for some time the parent with whom lives together.
And what if suddenly will not be at home mother when it returns from the father?
Or: and suddenly in its absence mother will get sick or will become sad and will feel lonely.
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And suddenly he will be frightened or will be confused and will uncomfortably feel in an unfamiliar interior of the new father's apartment.
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Since then Jeffrey fell in love with them, put the undoubted musical abilities and imagination into operation.
In duets we played different instruments a melodics, a violoncello, lamellar hand bells and a zither.
A choice of tools I provided Jeffrey for both of us.
By sight the stranger, Jeffrey's reactions to music looked spontaneous and impressive.
Musical abilities of the boy tempted to begin with classical methods of training in music.
Jeffrey owned brilliant gift to express himself spontaneously.
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